Q. I’m a 21-year-old female and I know the my-boyfriend-has-a-diaper-fetish thing has been done to death. But . . . we’ve been together for two years. When he mustered up the courage to tell me about his fetish, I was supportive even though it did seem odd. To be completely honest, he’s so good-looking and such a wonderful guy that I was worried about losing him if I seemed less than ecstatic. Flash-forward a year and a half. We’re very close, we’re in a really good place, and we want to get married. However, his fetish has started to bother me. In the beginning, he wanted me to talk down to him, he’d come in his diaper, and we were done. We’d do that roughly once a week. Now it’s all he ever wants to do, and “normal” sex is off the menu. And his fetish has progressed to these elaborate role-play scenarios complete with “sissy outfits.” Sometimes it takes a whole day of role-playing to satisfy him and he makes me feel guilty if I refuse. I know he’s attracted to me—my attractiveness is a significant part of the role-playing—but I feel like he’s being selfish. I also don’t want him to do what I want just for the sake of doing what I want. I’m getting sick of this inner dialogue. What do you think? And please don’t pass me up because you’ve answered infantilism questions in the past. —Sick Of Diapered Sissy

A. You’re right, SODS—we have done the boyfriend-has-a-diaper-fetish thing to death. In fact,…

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